This is pretty spot on!! Great read for those who think it’s so awesome to be married to a fireman or anyone in public service. It takes a special understanding to married to someone who cares about others…those I’m just a girl who fell in love with Firefighter in dirty bunker shirt don’t know and those who can’t ever pay them and ones they will probably never see again as much as they care about their family. My husband and his co workers (police,fire,ems&dispatch) are a special kind of people and those who stand next to them out of that uniform are even more special. Most of the time all the public hears about is the negative stuff. The one that didn’t make it because the fire was too hot or the one who didn’t survive the car wreck or wasn’t pulled out of the water soon enough to make it. As a wife I hear about those every once and a while and they are tough yes they always will be and living in a small town makes it even harder at times. The things people don’t know and don’t hear about is the guy who had a pulse after 30 mins of CPR or the little girl who just turned 6 because she was pulled from the pool quick enough and the kid who did survive that horrible car wreck those are why the people on the fire trucks in police cars on the ambulances and answering the phones go into work every day!
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Being married to a fireman is amazing in so many ways but it’s not what you think it is by the calendars and honestly I would much rather see my fireman dirty and in full gear it’s much hotter to see them do something they love and have such a great passion for then to pretend they are a fireman by being half dressed and playing in the water! Sadly, I feel like so many girls get wrapped up in the fantasy of being married to a I’m just a girl who fell in love with Firefighter in dirty bunker shirt , yet don’t have the first clue what it takes to actually be married to one. You see, for us real wives this is not just a bragging right, a status update, or a chance to wear cute little shirts that say I’m married to a firefighter. Our husbands don’t walk around topless with their bunker gear on like some scene out of the calendar you have hanging on your wall. The truth is, being a fire wife is rarely glamorous. It’s extremely lonely nights, followed by long days. It’s having to be mom and dad, even when you know some times you just can’t fill those shoes. It’s trying to convince your family, friends, and yourself, that you are still married even though you have been to every family function and holiday get together alone for the past 3 years.